On Resources: My Experience Explained


Self-hate is a very harmful thing to some one’s personal life; it makes someone lose good jobs and even the families’ crash when someone suffers from this. In the current world we are living in it is very hard always to be appreciative of all that happens in our day to day life. Co-workers, friends and what you say but you will be a big determinant on how you love yourself. The failures in your life might be a reason for you to look back and see is a failure at times. Low self-esteem comes about when you do not learn to appreciate yourself, even with a funny comment from a friend or keep on dwelling on little things that end up ruining all you up.

Alcohol and substance abuse end up being a place of refuge when you have low self-esteem affecting you. because of not believing in one’s person then you find this person accepting to work in places where the working conditions are bad. The life of such people is not always the best. Unless you learn to love yourself then nothing really can change in your life. When someone attends an alcohol rehab program they are shown the best way to love themselves. When you do not learn on how to love yourself then you end up hating yourself. When you have a bad life history then your future might be impacted in a bad way.

When a child is growing up in a family where there is lot violence from the parents then the child grows up not learning how to love. When you grow up in a family that does not have money you end up lacking a lot until thinking you don’t deserve having anything of value. Some other way that someone can suffer such self-hate is in work places. When you get fired from your job or when you have someone gets fired because of you, and you blame yourself.

Being content in life is the best way someone can be comfortable in life. Changing how we think cannot happen over just hours or overnight. Change is a slow process that needs you as the victim to put an effort in it. Many methods can be used to get you self-esteem to a level higher than before. When you want something in life, then patients should be a part of your day to day life. Be kind and good to yourself; appreciate yourself, all the good things in life start on a personal level. Every day when you wake up in the morning give thanks for the breath of life and tell yourself you can, and you will make it.